PHOENIX – The confrontation wasn’t about a handshake. Beneath all that ego and pride, rage and obstinance, Geno Auriemma must know that. It was about control — a slipping, shifting, sport-changing control — and a kind of frustration that the best coach in women’s college basketball refused to keep hidden.
For four decades, Auriemma hasn’t just dominated the sport. He set the terms. He renovated the throne. He stitched “One Size Fits Geno” on the crown. In this game, nothing can move without encountering him.
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Then Dawn Staley built her own galaxy.
Suddenly, there was more than one center of power.
That’s the part you need to understand to make sense of the eruption that occurred in the closing seconds of the first national semifinal game Friday night. The barking and cursing, the undeniable disdain — it wasn’t as impulsive as it seemed. The conflict had been intensifying for years. The sport has two dynasties now, one that endures, another that surges. But there is still only one universe.
And on this night, Staley ruined Auriemma’s bid for a seventh perfect season. South Carolina began a Final Four of undisputed heavyweights with a 62-48 victory over Connecticut. Staley called it a defensive masterclass. The game plan wrecked another Auriemma masterpiece. That’s what they keep doing to each other.
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A year ago, the Huskies tore apart the Gamecocks in the national title game. Four years ago, the Gamecocks became the first team to beat the Huskies in an NCAA Tournament final. They cannot avoid each other. South Carolina has been to seven Final Fours in 11 seasons and won three championships. During the same span, Connecticut has made 10 Final Four appearances and captured three of its record 12 titles. So if Staley’s team can beat UCLA on Sunday afternoon, it will have an edge in recent confetti glory.
Shrink the window to the past five seasons, and South Carolina’s rise is even more striking. It is vying for its third title. UConn has one during the same period.
This is the sport’s best rivalry, the fiercest since Connecticut-Tennessee spawned the coldest war between Auriemma and Pat Summitt. The latest installment nearly blew the roof off the arena.
As the teams waited for the clock to expire, both coaches walked toward midcourt. As they started to shake hands, Auriemma scolded Staley. Then Philly Dawn came out. The shouting escalated. Assistants and officials jumped between them. Staley turned and walked away, hot as July asphalt.
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“I will beat Geno’s ass,” she said several times.
This wasn’t a random sideline disagreement. This was inevitable. Auriemma is addicted to success. So is Staley. Neither is backing down. There have been subtle jabs for years, including a nasty back-and-forth about South Carolina’s physical play three years ago.
“It’s not basketball anymore,” Auriemma complained after a regular-season loss at South Carolina.
In defending her players, Staley hit back: “They play the right way. … We don’t denounce anybody’s play. They are always uplifting the game of women’s basketball, and when we were getting our heads beat in by UConn for all those years, I said nothing.”
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That escalation just happened to coincide with a year in which the Gamecocks were striving to complete an undefeated season.
This fight had been building.
Afterward, Auriemma tried to shrink it.
“I said what I had to say,” he said. “Nothing.”
But it wasn’t nothing.
He circled back to the pregame handshake, a gracious moment he believed Staley shunned.
“The protocol is, before the game, you meet at halfcourt,” he said. “I waited there for like three minutes.”
That was his explanation. But it was a partial truth. Because they did shake hands and acknowledge each other after coming onto the court before introductions. But Auriemma expected Staley to follow Final Four tradition and shake again after the public-address announcer introduced the teams. Maybe Staley forgot. Maybe she was momentarily confused because one interaction is sufficient during the regular season. Whatever the case, the grievance was small. It should have been too small for Auriemma to carry that kind of venom.
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“I said what I said,” Auriemma said, declining to show any regret. “And obviously she didn’t like it. I just told the truth.”
No, he projected a whole evening of frustration onto that one gripe. South Carolina dictated the game, and he couldn’t do anything about it.
“The game wasn’t played the way we want to play it,” he said. “It was played the way South Carolina wanted to play it.”
The physicality bothered him. The way Staley worked the officials bothered him. The way his offense stalled bothered him. The hallmarks of Connecticut basketball – tempo, space, pace, precision – eluded the Huskies as they were forced into uncomfortable possessions.
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And then there was the case of Sarah Strong’s torn jersey. Auriemma indicated a South Carolina player ripped it. For certain, Strong ripped it off her body. The incident fueled Auriemma’s anger over what he considered an officiating “double standard.”
He dropped an expletive during an in-game interview with ESPN’s Holly Rowe. Later, he said of Staley: “I’m of the opinion that if I ever talk to an official like that, I would get tossed.”
It all added up. It wasn’t a handshake dispute. It was an expression of agitation, a complete meltdown from the winningest coach in the history of the sport. It was the symptom of a man losing control of a game he has owned.
Trailing 26-24 at halftime, Staley yelled at her team. “Meet the moment!” she exclaimed. “Meet the moment! You really don’t get these opportunities very often. So you got to meet the moment.”
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They did. They dismantled UConn with defensive discipline. They flustered Strong and Azzi Fudd into a combined 7-of-31 shooting performance. They closed the game with panache. As Staley described them, they were “unbothered.”
She was, too. She needed to calm down immediately after the face-off, but she suppressed her anger.
Asked what happened, Staley said: “You can ask Geno the question. He’s the one that initiated the conversation. I don’t want what happened there to dampen what we were able to accomplish.”
Staley stayed in the moment. Auriemma stayed in his feelings.
He was so emotional he couldn’t even see himself. He talked about teaching his UConn teams about winning and losing with class, but he didn’t recognize the contradiction of his actions.
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“You have to be gracious in your losing,” he said at one point. “I never wanted to be anything other than that. And treat people with respect.”
Yet Staley somehow wasn’t worthy of civility as the game ended. And why? Because of a handshake misunderstanding? Because he thought Staley intimidated the refs?
Or because Staley is becoming his equal?
Auriemma has always needed a rival. Summitt. Muffet McGraw for a while. Perhaps the competitor in him needs someone to sharpen his edge, to resist his dominance. But Staley’s challenge doesn’t feel temporary. And soon, she may be inaccurate to label her the challenger.
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She isn’t chasing Auriemma. She is neither measuring herself against him nor revolving around his sun. She’s in her own orbit. She can go around him. She can go through him.
She can go at him, too.
On this night, that made Auriemma uncomfortable. He was childish and small. It was revealing. The confrontation wasn’t the story. It was the signal.
Staley isn’t just competing with Auriemma anymore. She is capable of standing beside him.
And sometimes, she stands over him.
This article originally appeared in The Athletic.
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